After 24 years in the United States, Devi made a decision that surprised many—especially her parents who still reside in Los Angeles. The former HR Manager at Long Beach Container Terminal, packed her life in California and returned to her roots in Sri Lanka, a move that turned out to be exactly what her soul had been yearning for all along.
The Unexpected Homecoming
"I was amongst my own people and felt at home," Devi shares with a warmth in her voice. "In my 24 years in the USA, I never once felt at home, despite living in five different cities.."
Like many expatriates who leave Sri Lanka for career opportunities abroad, Devi had built a successful professional life in America. As an HR Manager at LBCT in California, she had achieved the stability and success that many dream of when moving to the United States. Yet something essential was missing.
The Feeling That Can't Be Explained
When asked what pleasantly surprised her after returning to Sri Lanka, Devi's answer is simple yet profound: "At the end of the day, there is nothing like coming back home."
Her repatriation wasn't without its challenges. She candidly acknowledges that "Sri Lankans are laid back and can be lazy and inefficient at times (not all, but some) and that can be frustrating." Yet rather than viewing these cultural differences as insurmountable obstacles, Devi has embraced them as opportunities for personal growth.
"I have also learned to go with the flow and just chill out at times. Life is not that serious," she reflects, highlighting how the slower pace of life in Sri Lanka has taught her valuable lessons about presence and patience.
A Natural Transition
When asked what she wished she had known before moving back, Devi's response reveals just how natural her transition has been: "I took to Sri Lanka like jardia to moodia." This charming local expression—which essentially means fitting together perfectly—captures the essence of her experience.
"I can't explain it, nor can my parents, who are still in Los Angeles, and quite upset that I have left and gone back to Sri Lanka," she admits. Despite their confusion, Devi stands firm in her decision. "I am happy here; there is no other way to explain it."
Finding Your Place in the World
Devi's story offers a powerful reminder for Sri Lankans living abroad who may be contemplating a return home. While the professional opportunities and lifestyle in countries like the United States may appear superior on paper, there's an intangible sense of belonging that comes from being surrounded by your culture, your people, and your homeland.
Her experience challenges the notion that success and happiness are primarily found in Western countries. Instead, it suggests that for some, true fulfilment comes from reconnecting with their roots and embracing a way of life that resonates with their identity on a deeper level.
For those considering a move back to Sri Lanka, Devi's journey provides both inspiration and reassurance. While repatriation may come with its own set of challenges, the sense of being truly at home can outweigh any difficulties encountered along the way.
For Devi, returning to Sri Lanka wasn't just coming home—it was finding a new beginning. Today, Devi has transformed her cross-cultural experience into a business: Devi's Walking Food & Cultural Tour in Galle Fort. Drawing on her Sri Lankan heritage and international perspective, she guides visitors through the UNESCO Heritage Site, offering a taste of Sri Lanka's cuisine and cultural history. Follow Devi’s journey on instagram Instagram & Facebook
Devi’s transition is also testament to Sri Lanka’s economic landscape that may provide opportunities for small to medium sized business entrepreneurs. This may be distinguished from the typical corporate employee profiles that are the most viable career option in the developed world.
This story is part of WorkInSriLanka's series highlighting the experiences of professionals who have returned to Sri Lanka after living abroad. If you're considering making the move back home, connect with our volunteer-driven non-profit organization for networking opportunities, mentoring, and assistance with your transition.